Danger of online dating for men
Welcome back to The Attraction Doctor Last week, I discussed why women can't find a "good" man (here).In that article, I explained my hypothesis that women are stuck in a double-bind between what they are told through modern social norms and their own biological motivation.This week, I will discuss how that double-bind for women may have resulted in a double-bind for men as well.Today, men are given confusing and contradictory advice.Socially, they are expected to be "compliant" (i.e. However, they are also urged by women's sexual interest to maintain an "attractive personality" (i.e. Unfortunately, men sometimes report that attempting to balance these notions does not result in satisfaction, happiness, or women's appreciation and respect.
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Essentially, many men report that they find modern dating a primarily punishing affair.
Changing social norms has allowed few avenues by which they can be both acceptable as a relationship partner and attractive as a sex partner.