Dating divorce going man through


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Stbxh and I don't have any issues, we're in 100% agreement with wanting a divorce and in complete agreement with a settlement.My advice; let him finish up that part of his life before you get involved.It takes time to get over a divorce, much less getting through one. I had been told he'd be divorced for over a year, when in fact he had just been separated a couple weeks. If I knew then what I know now, I would have told him to go away and call me in a year.Lot's of things to work through that you don't want or need to be a part of. When I was going through my divorce my counselor said to wait to date a minimum for 6 months post divorce.

I doubt that he's looking for a long-term thing right now, so if you are, keep looking! I know there are many people who would say that's not necessary, but I found it to be good advice.

Going through a divorce can be an emotional roller coaster and like you said, by having a romantic interest you are putting that person in the car with you.