Neueste Wendung beim Millionen-Projekt Lido: Weil die Kosten aus dem Ruder laufen, will der Stadtrat von Rapperswil-Jona nur das Freibad für 25 Millionen Franken modernisieren.Eine neue Trainingseishalle ist auf unbestimmte Zeit verschoben. For many single women, dating can be difficult and disappointing. Phil offers advice to get through the dating maze and help find your Mr. He returned to the The Early Show to talk with co-anchor Rene Syler about how to do just that. Phil says that dating is "simply one of the most inefficient, non-productive, haphazard, hit-or-miss ways to try to achieve one of the most important objectives of your entire life."How so? When you decide 'I want to find a life partner, I want to get out there and make it happen,' nobody has a plan," he says. Phil says: "I want you to really spend some time consciously making eye contact with him. "I would rather four of them say they didn't like her, and one guy say I really liked her. His new book, "Love Smart: Find the One You Want — Fix The One You Got," Dr. Look right at him."As Wendy establishes eye contact, the date says, "We should look at the menu. " "I can't honestly say I was paying enough attention," Wendy says."Say I was paying more attention to you than the menu," prods Dr. The worst thing in the world you can do is if you go to a party and you meet four or five guys, and the next day not one of them can remember you.
"She described herself as the worst wall flower ever, with drab clothes, she would look at the ground, never got a second date — ever."But one of the things you need to do are minimal encouragers, where you let the other person know, I'm hearing what you're saying.I'm interested in what you're saying, with what you're doing right now.You're nodding while I'm talking and making eye contact with me and you just said 'right.' (Those are) three signs that you're tuned in to what I'm saying.
"These are conversational skills that encourage people to come along. And if you go out with somebody and they leave that date saying, 'she really liked me,' we like people who like us."If you're a great audience, people are going to love you.
The Don'ts:"A lot of people show up to a relationship with baggage," Dr. "I mean they haven't done an autopsy on their prior relationship, they have unfinished emotional business.